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Here, drunken sex with a complete stranger seems to be the hopeful prelude to a serious relationship, possibly marriage.If children result from this, it is hard to imagine what their parents tell them about the night Mom and Dad first met.Extreme drunkeness seems to be the accepted way to meet that special someone, as explained to me in the days when I still was seeking a Danish boyfriend.“What you do,” a Danish girlfriend explained to me, “is you get trashed and go home with somebody.On my very first night in Copenhagen, I went with an American girlfriend to a downtown discotheque. I think Zulus or spacemen would have found some way to communicate with us, but this was apparently beyond the capability of three well-educated Danes.I’m a blonde, and she’s an attractive black woman, so you could say we had something for every taste. Three men sat across from us, a distance of approximately 25 centimeters. Finally, fortified by gin and tonics, we spoke to them first, and they turned out to be nice guys.My grandparents once told me that they met outside a Depression-era dance hall, since my unemployed grandmother didn’t have the 10 cents necessary to get in, but maybe I just didn’t hear the whole story. Here is what I have learned: in Denmark, it is bad manners to ask a girl to dance, but it is good manners to get very drunk, make sure she is drunk too, and ask her to come back to your place.She will quite likely say yes, if only in a misguided audition for the role of girlfriend, leaving you both a little sad and bitter the next morning.
To be honest, most of the time I feel ugly, but that's another story.
For one thing, Danish people seem to think that talking to strangers is uncouth.
Ask Danish men why they don’t chat up women, and they say that women don’t want to be approached.
I am on business trip in Copenhagen until end of January.
I am looking for some advice what to do here in my free time and get to know anybody new and make new friends. I thought it was easier for me making new friends, but actually what I have found are only good colleagues.